Topic 2 -The Drive-Thru vs The Drive-By

By julu on Mar 4, 2012 | In Uncategorized | Send feedback »

Think men and women in this instance--we are not on some Boyz n the Hood type stuff. Ladies, is there anything wrong with a woman driving through the neighborhood, or passing by the job of an ex, just to see if you can catch a glimpse of that person, or find out if they're there? If your answer is "no," then you might just be a stalker; or at the very least are displaying some damm good tendencies. Someone that is affectionately known as an ex is just that; a person that is now "out" of the picture. I know more than one woman who has justified in her mind that she was either taking a shortcut, or a different route home as the justification for finding herself on the same street or neighborhood as her ex. What is up with that?  Maybe we should take a page from a man's playbook; and that's to be strong, and act like we no longer give a hoot about what they are doing, or who they may be doing it to. The best way to get over a person is to put your time and energy into yourself. And that can't be done if your putting energy into tracking someone else.  

Weekly Topic - Do women use sex to control men?

By julu on Oct 21, 2009 | In Uncategorized | 1 feedback »

Ladies, I know you’ve all heard this one before, and several women I know say their partners feel this way.  Some men actually believe we “hold the punany hostage” to get them to do more around the house, etc.  Has it ever occurred to you guys that maybe, just maybe women are tired?  If you had just cooked, cleaned, washed/folded clothes, walked the dog, helped kids with homework, etc - you’d be tired too.  Once we lay down at night after all that, many of us just want to be left alone to sleep!  And of the women I “polled” all of them admitted that the men in their lives began to believe they lost interest in sex because they’d begun seeing someone else.  Fellas, there has to be underlying reasons for why your wife/woman doesn’t want to be with you sexually.  Start with the man in the mirror.  You may be overweight.  Have you taken a bath lately?  Do you sweat profusely when making love?  Is it over before it starts?  Do you breathe heavily like “Notorious BIG” (God rest his soul).  MEN, take the time to find out “why” she doesn’t want to be with you and you might get some tonight.  ;-)