You know women hold the 'STUFF' as hostage. many will even tell there men... go ahead, make my day... you'll know the next time you get some pun-thang. And though many still lie about it, yes women do have their little side piece just like men. You can take this topic down. It applies to both gender as both do it... yes men hold the ding-a-ling from women and both genders cheat. Have you ever considered that a man after a hard day's work and all he does and puts with may not feel like having sex? Please don't come back with that's all men think about... it all some individuals both male and female think about. And just because that man says he's tired and don't feel like doesn't mean he's getting it elsewhere and many women believe. I can tell you... my ex to issh me off and then want 'make love.' When isshed, I don't want to see ya let along make love to ya... outta ma face.